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#128 - What is most important to you when you see a woman gagged? 

44 deviants said The gag has to be effective, regardless of what type it is. If it is pretty and effective, so much the better. But looks are not that important.
17 deviants said The gag has to be of a particular type and it must look pretty.
12 deviants said The gag does not matter. It is the woman's expression while gagged that does make the scene.
10 deviants said The gag has to be of a particular type, but it does not have to look pretty.
10 deviants said The type of gag (tape, cloth, ballgag, etc) is less important than whether her mouth is stuffed with cloth first.
7 deviants said The gag has to look pretty and be color coordinated with her clothes. If it is effective so much the better, but how it looks is most important.
5 deviants said The gag has to allow her lips to show, either through the material covering them or above and below a cleave gag.
No deviants said Why all this talk about gags...I want to hear her scream!!!!
It has bothered me for sometime that Damsel in Distress (DID), Guy in Distress (GID) and Couple in Distress (CID) bondage gets lumped into BDSM as if it is some sort of subset of it.  It isn't!  Okay B is there for bondage, but by association we get lumped into everything else, which is wrong.

What does BDSM stand for?  Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism.  But what most people think of when the term BDSM is used is the infliction of pain by someone on to someone else.  This is fine when two or more consenting adults do it.  And that is a major difference with DID (or whatever your flavor of "in Distress" bondage is).  We just watch it.  Unless you are a producer or rigger or model...we just watch.  We don't participate.  Other differences...most of us don't like real pain to be involved in DID scenes.  That leaves out discipline also (except for the occasional spanking video).  Dominance or Domination is important in DID scenes, but submission usually isn't.  That is to say the damsels are usually Not submissive.  They are dominated, forced into bondage.  They don't submit (unless a weapon is involved).

So I contend that BDSM is not a good descriptor for DID bondage and should not be DID lovers, at least.  So what might be a good descriptor?

F - Fantasy...

I think that this is an important distinction between DID bondage and BDSM.  We watch fantasy DID bondage scenes whether on TV shows or in bondage videos or read them in stories.  Most of us would never wish a real DID situation on anyone.

B - Bondage...

Specifically, DID (or your flavor of "in Distress") bondage - duh! 

D - Domination...

Yes, being tied up and gagged is part of being dominated, but DID scenes can have so much more.  Chloroform scenes, handgag scenes, spanking scenes, tickling scenes and my favorite, forced intimacy scenes (Credit Captain Kidnap for the expression).  The fact is that DID bondage is about sex, even if sex isn't part of the scene.  It is a turn-on.  So forced intimacy (my definition) can include topless or nude bondage, fondling, and even 'controlled' orgasms.  [This is fantasy remember.]  There is no submission, as such, because the damsels need not be submissive.  In fact, many of us prefer that the women be strong women who are dominated.

E - Emotion...

There are two definitions for 'E'.  [Hey, they used double definitions in BDSM!].  Emotion is important in DID bondage.  I include not only facial expressions and gag talk, but also struggling as a displays of emotions.

E - Escape...

Escape, which includes rescue, is very important.  I realize in some TV shows/movies escape does not happen.  Those scenes usually are not considered good scenes.  We want our damsels to escape or to be rescued after a period of captivity.  We do not want real harm to come to them.  Of course, if they escape, we hope they will be captured and tied up be rescued in the end. 

So, I give you FBDE...a proper way to express what DID bondage is all about.

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Thomas Silk
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My profile picture is not of is what I do. I am the producer of Knotty Silk Scarf Productions ( and I specialize in bondage videos, video clips, and photo stories. I also write bondage stories. The focus is on scarf, scarf & rope and pantyhose bondage. I also promote scarf fashion for women.

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Lady-of-Mud Featured By Owner Mar 14, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Thank you so much for the Deviantwatch!!! X3

I'm a big fan of your work! ^w^
knottysilkscarf Featured By Owner Mar 17, 2015
And thank you for the watch, as well.  I like your work also...:happybounce: 
vladen13 Featured By Owner Feb 15, 2015
Much thanks for faving a classic Night Kitten in a classic peril!
knottysilkscarf Featured By Owner Feb 16, 2015
You are welcome...I should have commented at the time, but I particularly like the way you did the gag.  The entire drawing was excellent, but I loved the gag. Clap 
Crash2014 Featured By Owner Feb 9, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Thanks for the fave!
Daisy-Pink71 Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Kawaii La Thank you for the fav~
Silkscarf-slave87 Featured By Owner Dec 24, 2014
Merry silky Christmas and Happy gagged Holidays ;)
carmag34 Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014
Thank you for the +fav
vladen13 Featured By Owner Nov 18, 2014
Thanks fine for these 2 faves from Vault 13!
ChisatoWatanabe Featured By Owner Nov 6, 2014
Thanks for watching and commenting.
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